When we buy a typical album of music, we get a mix of songs by one artist or group. There are usually one or two great songs, and bunch of good songs, and a couple that you skip over whenever they play.
Sure, there are those rare air times when most or all the songs on an album are great, but this does not happen very much.
Managers are like albums of music. They usually have one or two strengths, do a lot of things pretty well, and they suck at a couple tasks. There are the rare managers that have many strengths and I would guess that less than 5% fall into this category (given the odds, you probably are not one of these, although 80% of you probably think you are).
When we buy music albums, we expect a mix of songs and we are OK with the natural distribution of great, good, and skip-over songs. Perhaps we should see managers the same way. We should expect our managers to have a few unique talents, do most things well, and we should acknowledge that he or she - like most people - will stink at a couple things.
An album can be a great album and have a couple skip-over songs.
A manager can be a great manager and stink at a few tasks.
The management skip-overs should not be CORE to the success of the team or business, if this is the case the manager and the job are not a good fit.
I was talking to a friend of mine and we got on the topic of 360 degree assessments. 360s are great when they communicate strengths and help managers focus on building strengths. But I will bet that the focus of the conversation is on the low points in the bar graphs - the relative weaknesses.
We say that focusing on our strengths is most important, but I don't often see that we tolerate weaknesses. To focus on strengths we have to tolerate - even embrace - some weaknesses.
If we expect managers to turn weaknesses into strengths, this is not focusing on strengths. It is focusing on weaknesses.
Skip-overs are part of the package. Don't waste a lot of time trying to make a hit song out of a dud management practice. Find the gig that best fits your sweet spots and be cool with the rest.
I have worked with and for managers who had huge blind spots. Some of these were mission critical and they were not a good fit for their roles. But most of these managers had blind spots in areas that added up to minor irritations, and that's fine. I was able to appreciate their unique strengths.
With iTunes and similar music sites, we can buy just the great songs for a buck a piece. No skip-overs! But with managers, we can't do this. The album comes as one package - warts and all.